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Bad relationship with father in astrology and Remedies

In Vedic astrology, the 9th house and the Sun are key indicators of the father and one’s relationship with him. Understanding how these elements function in your birth chart can offer clarity and remedies to improve this vital bond.

Key Astrological Indicators:

1. 9th House – The House of Father

• Represents the father, blessings, and guidance received from him.
• Affliction by malefics (Saturn, Rahu, Ketu, Mars) or a weak 9th house lord can signify issues like estrangement, misunderstandings, or a lack of support.

2. Lord of the 9th House

• If placed in the 6th (conflict), 8th (sudden disruption), or 12th (loss) house, it can indicate tension with the father.
• Malefic aspects or conjunctions weaken its positive effects.

3. The Sun – Karaka of Father

• The Sun’s strength and placement show paternal connection and inheritance of traits.
• Afflictions (debilitation, malefic aspects) lead to ego clashes, distance, and lack of emotional warmth.

4. Malefic Planets in the 9th House

• Saturn: coldness, karmic distance.
• Rahu: confusion or unpredictable interactions.
• Ketu: detachment or karmic separation.
• Mars: aggression and conflict.

5. Dasha and Transits

• Malefic planetary periods (Dashas) or transits over the 9th house or Sun can activate discord.

Astrological Combinations for Strained Father-Child Relationships:

• Malefics in 9th house or afflicting 9th lord.
• 9th lord in dusthana houses (6th, 8th, 12th).
• Weak or debilitated Sun (e.g., in Libra).
• Saturn-Sun conjunction or mutual aspect.

Remedies to Improve Relationship with Father:

1. Strengthen the 9th House

• Identify and strengthen the 9th house lord through mantras and donations.
• For example, for Jupiter as 9th lord: chant “Om Brim Brihaspataye Namah” and donate yellow items.

2. Sun Remedies

• Chant “Om Surya Namah” or Gayatri Mantra daily.
• Perform Surya Namaskar (Sun Salutations) each morning.
• Worship Lord Vishnu or offer Arghya to the rising Sun.
• Donate wheat or copper items on Sundays.
• Wear a ruby gemstone (consult astrologer).

3. Saturn Remedies (If Afflicting Sun or 9th House)

• Chant “Om Shanaishcharaya Namah” on Saturdays.
• Donate black sesame seeds or iron items.
• Worship Lord Hanuman or visit Shani temples.

4. Rahu/Ketu Remedies

• Chant “Om Rahave Namah” or “Om Ketave Namah” respectively.
• Donate coconuts, black sesame, mustard oil to temples.

5. Behavioral and Spiritual Remedies

• Fasting on Sundays and Saturdays helps pacify Sun and Saturn energies.
• Practice humility, active listening, and emotional communication with your father.
• Perform Surya Pooja or Navagraha Pooja for overall harmony.

Conclusion

Astrological analysis of the 9th house, its lord, and the Sun offers deep insights into your relationship with your father. By applying suitable remedies, it is possible to restore emotional connection, resolve karmic patterns, and bring warmth and guidance back into your paternal bond.